Can We Talk?
Getting Real About the End of Life

Can We Talk?
Getting Real About the End of Life

Dying well is part of living well. Putting plans into place together with a person who is frail or seriously ill reaches the end of life can help ensure they will have the care and treatments they want or do not want, and that their wishes are documented and honored. On this page you’ll find resources to help you start conversations with people you love about the end of life — your own or someone else’s. These resources are made possible by a grant from Highmark Blue Cross Blue Shield awarded to 1889 Foundation in partnership with Conemaugh Health System.

The POLST Form

The POLST (Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment Form) is an approach to end-of-life planning based on conversations between patients, loved ones, and health care professionals designed to ensure that seriously ill or frail patients can make thoughtful choices about end-of-life medical care together with their doctors, before there is a crisis. The form is designed to be completed by a patient and his or her doctor.

POLST (Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment) Form

Katy Butler presentation: Can We Talk?

In the recorded presentation below, author Katy Butler shares how you can thrive in later life, adapt successfully to change, get the best from our fragmented health care system, and make your own “good death” more likely. She discusses The Art of Dying Well, her new handbook of step by step preparations — practical, communal, physical, and spiritual — all designed to help you make the most of your remaining time, be it months, years, or decades. She also discussed Knocking on Heaven’s Door, which explains ways to talk to your family about your wishes, and how to talk to a loved one who is dying.

Sharing her groundbreaking insights and inspiring true stories, this dynamic speaker offers ways to age in place successfully, to deepen your passions and community connections, to marshal a “tribe” to support you or a seriously ill friend, and to seize the power to make any death a sacred rite of passage rather than a medical event.

View the presentation on YouTube